There are times, we wear cover our face with mask and try to pretend to be somebody we aren't. Because of that we have to endure something we should have not. For instance, we are tired , but we acted as if we're not.
In a relationship, if we have to pretend to be somebody we aren't, it's very tired and exhausted. There is a Chinese saying goes like this, "Covering the fire using paper made bag, will end up the bag gets burnt." (纸是包不住火的）At the end of the day, we are still ourselves and people will know it as we can't hide something forever. So, why not be the person who we used to be?
When you're feeling like crying, it's not wrong to cry even though you're surrounded by your friend. They are your friend, and they will not mind. It's better not to let the emotion stuck in your heart. It's better to release it out.
If we need to pretend to be strong in front of our friends. Then, that's no longer your friend. They are just your mere acquaintance. Friends don't feel bad, or embarrass when their friends need them, their shoulders to cry, and their ears to listen.
Friends are supposed to be the person we are comfortable to hang around. If they don't like us to be ourselves, then just leave an arm length away from them because we don't need friends like that.
We need friends that sympathized us when I are down. And feel the sad we feel, talk to us when we feel lonely. And always be with us no matter how bad the situation might seems. That are true friends.
From now on, be who you are! Tear off the mask, and be sincere in your friendship.
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