Feeling good is the key 😀

Have you ever experienced this?

The moment you goet out of the bed. You found out you're  late for work. Upon arrival to work place, you get scolded by your boss. Then, things seems to be going unwell.

This chain reaction happens because of one thing - fail to feel good.

Your feeling is important as it will sometimes determine how the rest of your day look like. If you don't feel good on a particular day, do something about it.

It is important to know that our feelings reflect on our thought. When you don't feel good, simply because your thought isn't good.

In this case, there is always ways to make our feelings to be good. It depends on the individual. Like some of us,  we may pray to God, or sing a song, watch funny movie or program, listen to music,  etc...

It is time to navigate our feelings. Don't let it influence our day. Bad emotion leads to bad day.

If you think you're poor, think twice

As human being, we can't deny that we never envy of something.

We have friends who can afford an iPhone, but we can't. They live in a luxury house, but we live in a humble cottage. They dine in at high class restaurant, but we eat at home.

Please realize this!!

When you can afford to live under a roof, have three meals a day, and internet connections. I believe you are wealthier than many people in this world.

It isn't wrong to aim higher and to earn more money. But, the law of attraction says that only those who are thankful will receive more.

Be happy with the things you have, such as car, or even motorcycle or bicycle.

If you don't have an iPhone, be appreciate that your phone still enables you to call and SMS.

We can't be truly appreciate, but should we try to appreciate on what we have. Then, life will be much better!

Shed tears doesn't mean you're weak!

There is time we need to cry.

Crying is a way to become stronger. Everyone has their own limits and when we can't push to the limit, we have to find way to release our tension. No one in this world never cried, not even blind person.

Everyone in this world have feeling. And when we are sad, we are all the same. No one is alone in this world.

From now on, don't feel shame when you cry! You're not weak.

Be strong, but never let people manipulate our emotion.

Haters gonna hate!! Be yourself :)

Taylor Swift is right. Look, there are million people around the world like Adele. But, there must be million who dislike her.

No matter what you do, they will never get impressed. Why not just be yourself?

There is no need to impress these people. Don't let these people ruin your feeling, and let you be sad. At the end of the day, you still have someone who like you. They willing to spend their time for you, be your listener, and comforter.

Always cherish people who makes you feel happy. Don't let them go!

Sincerely thanks them for being there for you. Let those who hate continue to hate, they'll always hate and there is no need to do something with it. 

Being an actor!?

Have you ever experienced this? One day, you feel sad and yet you have to pretend you're not. You're not alone.

Everyone have been doing this, and we really want to have a corner to cry. But, the sad reality, we can't find it. We're afraid that people will think that we are too weak when we cried, especially if we're guy.

But, why do we have to pretend?

TO be honest, I have once told myself. If I can act as if I'm okay, but in fact I'm not. But, people do really think that I'm good by the way I looked. Why not be an actor? At least, we can earn some income. I think it is much easier to be an actor than hiding our feeling.

Unfortunately, no one can really hide their feeling perfectly. There must be flaws, and our friend might sense it. Those are the people we have to appreciate.

If you have people to impress, they are not your friend. They are your acquaintance. Friends are those who make us happy without needing us to please them.

It's time to stop being an actor. Be yourself! 

Friendship: Be sincere, don't pretend...

There are times, we wear cover our face with mask and try to pretend to be somebody we aren't. Because of that we have to endure something we should have not. For instance, we are tired , but we acted as if we're not.

In a relationship, if we have to pretend to be somebody we aren't, it's very tired and exhausted. There is a Chinese saying goes like this, "Covering the fire using paper made bag, will end up the bag gets burnt." (纸是包不住火的）At the end of the day, we are still ourselves and people will know it as we can't hide something forever. So, why not be the person who we used to be?

When you're feeling like crying, it's not wrong to cry even though you're surrounded by your friend. They are your friend, and they will not mind. It's better not to let the emotion stuck in your heart. It's better to release it out.

If we need to pretend to be strong in front of our friends. Then, that's no longer your friend. They are just your mere acquaintance. Friends don't feel bad, or embarrass when their friends need them, their shoulders to cry, and their ears to listen.

Friends are supposed to be the person we are comfortable to hang around. If they don't like us to be ourselves, then just leave an arm length away from them because we don't need friends like that.

We need friends that sympathized us when I are down. And feel the sad we feel, talk to us when we feel lonely. And always be with us no matter how bad the situation might seems. That are true friends.

From now on, be who you are! Tear off the mask, and be sincere in your friendship.

Dedication...

This blog is dedicated to those who are anxiety and depressed. And who wants to be strong despite of the circumstances.

To be honest, we are same. No one living a life without going through such experiences. But, the fact that the world is pushing us so hard, and there is time we couldn't withstand it. 

No matter how life is. Be positive :) Be yourself. At the end of the day, we still have to stand up with our own, even though how helpless we might seems.

I hope this blog regain your confidence, and makes you feel better. 

Cheers :)